Think about your date and what you would like to know about her and in return what you would like her to know about you. Try and think of any questions that she might ask you so that you can prepare the answer.
The right clothing and the right gear are essential. Imagine business casual... but wear high-quality clothes.
Put on some decent, recently dry-cleaned dress pants.
One of the worst things you could do when going out on a date is to turn up unshaven, looking dirty and smelling.
You should remember that women always dress lightly and then complain about the cold. Have a light sweater in the backseat of your car. Keep an umbrella handy as well.
Don't turn up late. Turning up late will send out all the wrong impressions. Not only will she think that she has been stood up, but she will also think that you are unreliable.
The first thing to say to her is you look beautiful before you even ask how she is.
Hold the door open for her, let her walk through the doors first, pull her chair, be polite to her and people around you.
Let the conversation be spontaneous, but let the location be the result of careful planning.
People crave compliments, attention, and applause. Listen, show genuine interest in her life. Ask her about her job, her interests.
Show Support for any effort you feel she's making to accomplish something.
Show admiration. Tell her what you enjoy and admire her sense of humor, her taste and personality.
Pay attention to her. Work very hard to dispel the stereotype that men are inattentive and don’t notice anything.
Let her teach you something. Ask her to teach you how to cook a favorite dish or read her favorite novel together.
Engage her on emotional and intellectual levels and show her kindness by helping out.
Some women prefer not to kiss after a first date, while others may be disappointed if the guy doesn't even try. There is no easy answer to this question.
Only tell her that you will call her if you mean it and intend on seeing her again. Do not, under any circumstances, tell her you will call her if you are not interested and have no plans to call her.
