Men need to be the aggressors. You must allow the man to pursue you. Remember, anything worth having is worth working for.
At all time you are not in an exclusive relationship, you should rotate three men. In the event that you have a full rotation (dating three men) and someone new you would like to date asks you out, you simply drop your least-favorite suitor from the group and add the new one.
He should be an open book, you should be a mystery
When he asks you out for something you do not like, say sure. Remember, you're hard to get but easy to be with.
Even when men have begun to ask you out every weekend or so, it is good practice to reserve every third weekend to go out with friends or relatives. It keeps a men from becoming too comfortable.
If you feel he's taking you for granted, and you want to shake things up, take a trip on your own.
You may have to dump him if he can't commit. If he really loves you, he'll beg you to come back. Remember, men propose when they are afraid of losing you.
Always use condom until you are both in a long-term, monogamous relationship and also have both been tested and are clean for STDs.